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Real mothers wonder why experts who write for Parents and Good Housekeeping–and, dare I say it, the Burlington Free Press— seem to have their acts together all the time when they themselves can barely keep their heads above the stormy seas of parenthood.

Real mothers don’t just listen with humble embarrassment to the elderly lady who offers unsolicited advice in the checkout line when a child is throwing a tantrum.  We take the child, dump him in the lady’s cart, and say, “Great.  Maybe you can do a better job.”

Real mothers know that it’s okay to eat cold pizza for breakfast.

Real mothers admit it is easier to fail at this job than to succeed.

If parenting is the box of raisin bran, then real mothers know the ratio of flakes to fun is severely imbalanced.  For every moment that your child confides in you, or tells you he loves you, or does something unprompted to protect his brother that you happen to witness, there are many more moments of chaos, error, and self-doubt.

Real mothers may not speak the heresy, but they sometimes secretly wish they’d chosen something for breakfast other than this endless cereal.

Real mothers worry that other mothers will find that magic ring, whereas they’ll be looking and looking for ages.

Rest easy, real mothers.  The very fact that you worry about being a good mom means that you already are one.

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About hopeseguin

Who am I? I'm still discovering just who I am, I suppose. A. Powell Davis writes that "Life is just a chance to grow a soul."

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  1. I read this and just passed my copy along to a girlfriend. I liked this story of Picoult’s . Some of her books are too hard to get through, like the one she did with the animae drawings. I gave up on it.

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  2. Picoult sees ordinary (and not so ordinary) situations in a very unique way; I think she is a good writer.

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  3. yes, I have liked the majority of her work

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